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Spring Forward: Daylight Saving Time 2012 Begins Sunday

Tuesday, March 6th, 2012

 Spring Forward: Daylight Saving Time 2012 Begins SundayIt's nearly time to 'Spring Forward.'

At 2 a.m. on the morning of Sunday, March 11, we'll be springing our clocks forward—and losing an hour of the day, for daylight saving time. The good news: sunset will be an hour later.

You may have noticed the annual tradition of daylight saving time has crept forward a bit. We used to spring forward on the first Sunday in April and fall back on last Sunday in October. But a couple years ago, Congress changed the date—adding more daylight saving time to the calendar. This year, it will run from March 11th until Nov. 4th.

Unless you're in Arizona, Hawaii, Puerto Rico or the U.S. Virgin Islands. They don't do daylight saving time.

Around the world, about 75 countries and territories have at least one location that observes daylight saving time, according to TimeandDate.com. On the other hand, 164 don't observe the time change at all.

Brief History:

According to the Huffington Post:

Benjamin Franklin has been credited with the idea of daylight saving time, but Britain and Germany began using the concept in World War I to conserve energy, the Washington Post observes. The U.S. used daylight saving time for a brief time during the war, but it didn't become widely accepted in the States until after the second World War.

In 1966, the Uniform Time Act outlined that clocks should be set forward on the last Sunday in April and set back the last Sunday in October.

That law was amended in 1986 to start daylight saving time on the first Sunday in April, though the new system wasn't implemented until 1987. The end date was not changed, however, and remained the last Sunday in October until 2006.

Today, daylight saving time begins on the second Sunday in March and ends on the first Sunday in November. The time change will precede the first day of spring and the vernal equinox, which is set to take place at 1:14 a.m. EDT on Tuesday, March 20th.

Preschoolers Swearing

Sunday, March 4th, 2012

If I have to sit in the corner for sayin' it, at least you could tell me what it means ! ~ Dennis the Menace Preschoolers Swearing


In a recent episode of the TV series, "Modern Family" a toddler blurted out a swear word.  This scene stirred quite a controversy as experts weighed in with arguments that swearing by preschool children is inevitable, intolerable, avoidable, or something else.  Here is a sampling of some reactions as shared in MSNBC.

"The show's theme already has critics at the anti-indecency Parents Television Council grumbling, but researchers who study cursing find that, believe it or not, 2 years is about the age when kids really start to use 'adult' language.

"'Yes, 2-year-olds say f—,' said Timothy Jay, a psychologist who studies psycholinguistics and obscenities at the Massachusetts College of Liberal Arts.  'Preschoolers are pretty well versed in the lexicon, and by 11 to 12, we are looking at adult swearing patterns.  Kids say swear words as soon as they talk.'

"Jay and his colleagues have a dataset stretching back into the 1970s of words that schoolteachers, day care workers, and other adults who work with children report hearing.  Kids mimic words early on and pick up quickly on which words are 'bad,' even if they don't know the exact definitions of those words, Jay said.

"In fact, studies suggest that swearing is firmly embedded in the brain.  Swearing is a form of 'formulaic language,' said Diana Van Lancker Sidtis, a professor of communicative sciences and disorders at New York University.  These are expressions such as 'You bet!' that frequently appear in conversation, and kids learn them as they're learning how to piece together sentences."

 

Keep Them Guessing

Friday, February 3rd, 2012

 estimating Keep Them GuessingFrom a recent article in the December 12, 2011, edition of Time Magazine   entitled “Good GuessWhy we shouldn’t underestimate the value of estimating” author Annie Murphy Paul pointed to research that clearly proved the benefit of having children estimate, both and home and at school.   According to the researchers who study the science of learning, estimation is the ESSENTIAL FOUNDATION for advanced math skills, abstract thinking required to achieve good grades in school, and the ability to get and keep a job in our knowledge-based economy.  So what is a parent to do?

  • Ask your children to make everyday predictions like: how much will this cart full of groceries cost? How much gas will the car take? What time do you thing the casserole will be done?
  • Play board games with them letting them guess the number of moves necessary to get the next “win” on the board.
  • Talk about how many miles it is to Grandma’s house, or the mall, etc.
  • Use unusual units to guess – for instance, “how many daddies long is the football field.”

Be creative and let everyone guess. We benefit from considering other opinions.  Allow for discussion on how your children arrived at their guess and how near they were to the correct answer.  Have fun with this and the payoff will be great.

New Parenting and Social Skills Classes

Thursday, December 22nd, 2011

We are providing this information in the hopes that you find it useful to your family. Providing this announcement does not constitute an endorsement of any agency, organization, program, person or event.  To learn more about any of the items listed, please contact the agency directly.  Please feel free to share the information with others that might find it useful.

Thank you
 
In This Announcement
CHEC FRC Offers Spanish Parenting Class
CUIDAR Offers New Parenting Class
CARES Shares Social Skills Groups
ASK Invites You to PEERS

 

CHEC Family Resource Center Offers Parenting Class

 

8 week Parenting Class for Parents with children ages 5-12.
 **Classes are in Spanish
 
Topics Include:
  • Understanding yourself and child better.
  • What can you do when your child misbehaves?
  • Building your child's self esteem 
  • Improve communication with your child 
  • Effective discipline 
  • Appropriate decision making 
When:    Mondays, January 23, 2011 through March 12, 2011
Time:      5:30 p.m. – 7:00 p.m.
Where:   CHEC Family Resource Center  
              27412 Calle Arroyo
              San Juan Capistrano, CA 92675
 
Facilitator: LuzElena Pinzon, MSW, Mental Health Counselor

***Please call Jaime Najera at (949) 489-7742 to register for class

CUIDAR: Offers New Classes 

 

CUIDAR Offers COPE Parenting Classes:

 

Do you ever feel frustrated as a parent or are you concerned about your child's behavior? If you have a preschool-age child(3-5 years), we have a program for you. CUIDAR offers a 10-week program intended to help parents find effective solutions to common behavior challenges while getting to know other families in the community. New parenting classes beginning in January!

 

Click here for flyer in English

Click here for flyer in Spanish 

CARES Shares Social Skills Groups 

 

CARES is pleased to announce enrollment in

  

Social Skills Groups for children ages 8-12 and adolescents ages 13-17

starting mid-January 2012

  

8-12 year old groups will utilize the empirically supported

UCLA Children's Friendship Training (CFT) Program curriculum

The CFT program is parent-assisted, with concurrent parent groups held each week. Parent participation is required.
  

Adolescent groups will utilize the empirically supported

UCLA PEERS Program curriculum

(as seen in  the November 22nd, 2010 issue of People Magazine)

The PEERS program is parent-assisted, with concurrent parent groups held each week. Parent participation is required.

 

 

The groups will address such topics as:

 

 

Conversation skills

 

Appropriate use of humor

Choosing appropriate friends

Good sportsmanship

Participating in peer get-togethers

Bullying, teasing, and embarrassment

 

Handling disagreements

 

 

CFT groups run for 12 weeks (Mondays 4:00-5:00 pm)

 

 

PEERS groups run for 14 weeks (Mondays 5:30-7:00 pm)

 

For more information please contact: 

 

 

Michaela Ene, Ph.D.

(858) 444-8823, x 1211

 

 

Tal Feingold, M.A., LMFT

(949)229-3075

 

 

ASK Invites You to PEERS

 

ASK Cordially Invites You to PEERS: The Art of Making Friends on January 12, 2012!

 

Join us for a FREE presentation on ASK PEERS for TEENS

 

Learn how ASK PEERS for TEENS will help you and your teens master the art of making friends! Seize the opportunity to talk to Dr. Alexander Gantman (former Assistant Director of the UCLA PEERS Program) and Kimberly Orliczky (Board Certified Behavior Analyst) about this highly successful program.

 

This presentation is open to all families interested in PEERS that have not had the chance to apply. Bring your questions, Q&A session following the presentation!

  

Details:

 

When: Thursday January 12, 2012

Time: 6:30-8:30

Location: ASK Office

Cost: FREE

 

Space is limited, click here to RSVP! 

 

Reserve your spot today!

 

We look forward to meeting you

 

CUIDAR: Helping Parents Manage Children with ADHD and Other Behaviors

Wednesday, October 12th, 2011

The COPE approach to teaching parenting skills uses active, small-group discussions among parents to help them identify their goals and their approaches to parenting. Group leaders foster discussions that help participants develop, practice, and strengthen the skills that will allow them to achieve their own individual goals for parenting their children.

By the end of the series of sessions, parents should have the tools they need to help their preschoolers prepare for their school-aged years. It is time well-invested as the skills parents learn can greatly enhance their effectiveness.

CUIDAR: Helping Parents Manage Children with ADHD and Other Behaviors.

CUIDAR: COPE-ing with Toddler Behavior

Tuesday, July 12th, 2011

toddler behaviours CUIDAR: COPE ing with Toddler BehaviorDo you ever feel frustrated as a parent or are you concerned about your child's behavior? If you have a toddler (up to 3 years old) in your home, we have a program for you. CUIDAR offers an 8-week program intended to help parents find effective solutions to common behavior challenges while getting to know other families in the community.
Next class is scheduled for July and August

Click here for detailed flyer

To Register go to: www.mission4health.org

Quality Infant and Toddler Care

Tuesday, June 28th, 2011

j0202031 Quality Infant and Toddler CareOne of the greatest challenges facing you, as parents today, is the search for quality early care and education. You are looking for the very best.  You are looking for a place where you know your child will be safe and where you know people will care for and nurture them. You are also looking for opportunities for play and activities which encourage your child to explore, discover and learn.  Recent research has shown that young children thrive in early care and education settings that meet a “quality” standard. This guide has been designed to highlight quality indicators in programs caring for infants and toddlers.  When choosing early care and education, it is important to visit the programs that you are considering.  Keep the following in mind:

▪ Arrange a tour of the program first. Make it clear that you would like the opportunity to observe as well as to ask questions about the program and speak with the caregivers.

▪ If you are interested in the program, arrange a visit with your child. Watch how your child responds to the program as well as how the caregivers respond to you and your child.

▪ Plan visits in the morning.  It is likely you will be able to observe caregivers and children interacting during meals, diapering/toileting and play.

 

What is Quality Care?

Even if parents provide all the security, nurturing and enrichment that promotes healthy brain development, child-care providers must support and complement parents’ care giving for the best outcomes. Where a child receives care is less important than the quality of care she receives. A lot of research has examined the necessary conditions in children’s care arrangements, whether by parents or child-care providers that help children grow up healthy and happy.  Although there are no guarantees, research has shown that the following conditions are necessary:

working with babies Quality Infant and Toddler CareSmall groups of children — No more than 6 to 8 babies, 6 to 10 toddlers, always with at least 2 adults in each group.

A primary caregiver — Infants and toddlers especially need nurturing from a consistent caregiver.

Scheduling that keeps children with the same caregiver — Rather than changing primary caregivers on an arbitrary schedule.

Low staff turnover — Again, to prevent children’s anxiety about changes in the very important adults in their lives.

Active parent participation — To help ensure trust, communication, and consistency between home and child care.

Training – Staff training in child development is often linked to higher quality care, along with clean, safe and stimulating environments.

 

Health and Safety

Is the program licensed by the State of California?

Does the program comply with the appropriate caregiver/child ratios? (At least 1 teacher: 4 babies)

Do caregivers and children wash hands before and after meals, diapering, toileting or contact with bodily fluid?

Do caregivers place infants under one year of age to sleep on their backs?

Do caregivers keep the environment free from hazards by using outlet covers, locking cabinets for storage and other appropriate safety precautions?

Do caregivers clean toys and materials daily?

 

Care Routines

Are the same caregivers in the program each day so that infants and toddlers can form relationships and feel secure?

Do caregivers respect and accommodate individual sleeping and eating patterns?

Do caregivers hold infants when feeding them a bottle?

Do caregivers encourage toddlers to be independent during meals, toileting and dressing?

Do caregivers support infants and toddlers during naptime in a positive manner through rocking, rubbing backs or playing soothing music?

 

Professionalism

Are caregivers trained in Infant/Child CPR and First Aid?

Do caregivers attend trainings and conferences focused on infant and toddler care?

Do caregivers seem knowledgeable about the specific needs of infants and toddlers in child care?

 

Observation and Assessment

Do caregivers keep written observations about the development and interests of the infants and toddlers in their care?

Do caregivers plan activities for infants and toddlers based on these observations?

Do caregivers share their observations with families on a regular basis?

 

Learning Environments

Do caregivers provide space for infants to play on the floor?

Do caregivers provide opportunities for infants and toddlers to climb, run, jump and dance?

Do caregivers provide a variety of materials for infants and toddlers to touch, look at, listen to, smell and taste?

Do caregivers read and sing with children?

Do caregivers encourage infants and toddlers to choose what they want to play with?

Do caregivers take infants and toddlers outside to play?

 

Interactions

Do caregivers show warmth and affection with infants and toddlers through holding, hugging, playing and singing?

Do caregivers play and interact with infants and toddlers on the floor?

Do caregivers talk with infants and toddlers about what they are doing and how they feel during play and care routines?

Do caregivers quickly soothe infants and toddlers who are sad, hurt or upset?

Finger Foods for Baby

Tuesday, November 2nd, 2010

What is the age for Introducing Baby Finger Foods – When will Baby be Ready for Finger Food?

All babies are different and there is no set-in-stone age for when to introduce finger foods. You should introduce finger foods when you feel that your baby is ready; this may be at 7 months old or when baby is 10 months old. The average age for introducing baby finger food is between 7 and 8 months of age.

 Your baby should be able to "chew" using his or her gums to mash foods. Your baby should also have a pretty good pincher grasp. The pincher grasp is the the ability to grab and hold objects between the thumb and the fore finger. If your baby has the fine motor skill to maneuver and grab and hold onto foods with the pincher grasp, then your baby is probably ready for finger foods.


Why is the Pincher Grasp important when offering Baby Finger Food?

 As with anything your baby is learning to accomplish, there is a level of frustration that comes with each milestone and accomplishment. If you offer your baby finger foods and your baby is not physically ready to pick up and hold onto the small bits of food, your baby may become frustrated. It is important to limit baby's frustration so as not to inadvertently begin to foster a negative relationship with food and self-feeding.

 Finger Foods for Babies will do more than just provide nutrition.

 Finger Foods help baby learn fine motor skills and Finger Foods allow baby to engage in the wonder and fun of food experimentation. When your baby reaches between 7-8 months old and has a pretty good pincher grasp, you may think about offering him finger foods. 


 

What are Good Finger Foods to Offer Baby?

 Ideal Finger foods are those foods that baby can easily pick up and easily mash between his gums.  Finger foods help baby begin to learn to self-feed.  Good Baby Finger Foods are any foods that baby has already had – and anything that you can make into small soft and "mash-able" bits.

Here's a list of finger food favorites:

  • O-shaped toasted oat cereal or other low-sugar cereal
  • Lightly toasted bread or bagels (spread with vegetable puree for extra vitamins)
  • Small chunks of banana or other very ripe peeled and pitted fruit, like mango, plum, pear, peach, cantaloupe, or seedless watermelon
  • Small cubes of tofu
  • Well-cooked pasta spirals, cut into pieces
  • Very small chunks of cheese
  • Chopped hard-boiled egg
  • Cut-up raisins, softened dried apricots, or stewed prunes
  • Small pieces of well-cooked vegetables, like carrots, peas, zucchini, potato, or sweet potato
  • Small well-cooked broccoli or cauliflower "trees"
  • Pea-size pieces of cooked chicken or other soft meat
  • Rice cakes or crackers broken into small pieces

Baby Finger Food Quick Tips

Baby Finger Foods should be ""mash-able"" between the gums.

Finger Foods should be age appropriate – do not offer your 8 month old whole eggs scrambled for example.

If your baby cannot hold her head up and sit up unassisted, do not offer her finger foods

Baby should always be sitting upright when offered Baby Finger Foods so as to avoid possible choking.

NEVER leave your baby unattended when serving Baby Finger Foods (or any other chunky food for that matter).

There is no brand of teething biscuit/cracker or recipe for teething biscuits/crackers that is guaranteed not to crumble or break off into pieces.

Right from the Start

Wednesday, September 29th, 2010

Right From the Start:

Parenting can be challenging.  Are you unsure or anxious about your parenting skills?  Do you want to feel more comfortable with your baby? Then Right From the Start is right for you and your child 12 months or younger.  A healthy parent-child relationship promotes infant attachment security, mental development, and well-being.  In Right From the Start, parents work together on solutions to parenting challenges, share ideas, and explore the many faces of parenting

A FREE 8-session parenting skills course

 

 

New parenting class in English

 

South Orange County Family Resource Center:

23832 Rockfield Blvd., Ste.270, Lake Forest, CA 92701

Every Thursday October 7, 2010 to December 2, 2010

From 1 pm to 3 pm

 

Child Care will NOT Be Provided, but if parents choose to bring their child we ask that they be under the age of 12 months and are able to sit quietly to minimize class interruptions

 

For more information regarding upcoming class schedules or to enroll please call:

Laura Ramirez at (949) 824-4449

 

Right From The Start is an 8-session course that uses attachment theory as a framework to enhance caregiver skills in reading infant cues and responding sensitively (Niccols et al. 2000).

The goal of Right From the Start is to improve parent-child interaction in order to foster infant attachment security. 

 

SESSION 1:  Attachment Security – “What is it & why is it important”

  • Participants focus on the importance of infant attachment security and the importance of sensitive, responsive parent-child interaction to fostering attachment as well as benefits of participating in the course.

 

SESSION 2: Parent-child Interaction –“How do you show me you love me”

  • Parents answer the question, “How do you and your baby become ‘attached’?”  Parents learn to consider how babies communicate without words, interpret the meaning of different types of infant behavior, and to formulate strategies for sensitive response to infant cues.

                                             

SESSION 3:  Child and Parent Personality – “I am unique and so are you.”

  • Focuses on the role of temperament, how this concept applies to infants and their parents, the potential impact on parent-child interactions, and short- and long-term implications.  Parents are asked to identify characteristics in themselves and their infant that make parenting challenging, to proactively plan strategies to improve the interaction, practice these strategies and evaluate the results.

 

SESSION 4:  Disengage Cues – “I don’t like what you’re doing right now.”

  • Parents learn skills in observing and responding to their infants’ disengage cues.  Parents will learn to identify behaviors indicating when their infants “need some space” or do not like something about their current interaction

 

SESSION 5:  Engage/Approach Cues – “I like what you’re doing right now.  I need you.”

  • Parents learn how to observe and respond to approach/engage cues, especially as they relate to comforting an infant in distress.  Parents learn to identify potential cues that indicate when infants want to be attended to or approached, or when they like something about the current interaction.

 

SESSION 6:  Following Your Child’s Lead – “This is what I’m interested in right now.”

  • Parents learn how to follow their baby’s lead in play, why it is important, the impact on the relationship, when to use this approach to interact, and how it differs from directive or disciplinary interactions.  Through exercises parents look at cues that indicate the child is alert and interested and other strategies that help parents connect with their children.

 

SESSION 7:  Building a Healthy Relationship – “I like being with you.”

  • Parents identify strategies to encourage interaction that would help foster parent-child attachment, as well as infant communication and play skills, and the impact of a healthy parent-child relationship on the child, parents and the family.

 

SESSION 8:  Wrap Up

  • The concepts and skills necessary for sensitive, responsive parent-child interaction and fostering infant attachment security are reviewed.  Parents share their thoughts and feelings about the group process and on their experience.  Parents attending 5 or more classes will receive a “diploma” for completion. 

 

Progressive Interventions Online

Friday, September 17th, 2010

Progressive Interventions Online.

 

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